Getting to Know You Form for the Deluxe Customized Ceremony - Trudi Cooper, Minister of the Peace, Wedding Officiant

Getting to Know You Form
for the Deluxe Customized Ceremony

Please fill out this questionnaire.

(A copy of your form will also be sent to your email address.)

Spouse 1's Legal Name (Primary Contact) *

First

Last

Spouse 1's Phone *

Is this number textable?

Spouse 1: After the wedding, what will your last name be?

Spouse 2's Legal Name *

First

Last

Spouse 2's Phone *

Spouse 2: After the wedding, what will your last name be?

Email for ceremony related correspondence *

Street address

City, State, Zip

Why are you getting married?

Which type of ceremony do you want?

Deluxe Customized Wedding Ceremony Package for up to 75 guests, $400
Deluxe Customized Wedding Ceremony Package with 76-150 guests, $450
Deluxe Customized Wedding Ceremony Package for over 150 guests, $525
We're not sure
We'd like to discuss other options with you

Date of Wedding *

Please note if dates are tentative.

Time of wedding?

Specific time (AM/PM), or morning, afternoon, evening, not sure yet

How many people will be at your wedding?

Includes wedding couple, other guests, children over 1 year old. This is a not-to-exceed number. There will be an additional charge if there are more people.

Confirmation

Yes, we understand that completing this form is a request to save the date on Trudi’s schedule. The date is not officially reserved until you have returned this form, paid the deposit, and received a confirmation from Trudi.
Yes, we understand that the number of people specified in our wedding party is a not-to-exceed, unless pre-approved by Trudi.
Deposit: On the confirmation page following this form, we'll leave a $100 deposit.
Yes, we understand that our $100 deposit is non-refundable. If the date is not available on Trudi's calendar, the deposit will be returned.

If there is a rehearsal, date & time? ($75 plus travel rates if applicable)

Where will the wedding be held?

Venue name and address, or not sure yet

We are considering your land and riverfront and building for our wedding.

We need to discuss the details with you.
We're sure we'd like to get married at your Ceremony building
Outdoors at your secluded, private river front.

How formal is the wedding?

Very Formal (Black tie) This may have an effect on my pricing.
Formal (Suits and Ties)
Semi-Formal (More Relaxed)
Casual

Sound Amplification Provided?

Be careful not to underestimate the importance of this resource.

Are you working with a wedding planner?

Yes
No
I don't know yet

Does your wedding have a theme?

What are your wedding colors?

So I can wear something to coordinate.

Total number of bridesmaids

Including children

Will either spouse be escorted (given away)?

Yes
No
To be decided

Will there be a ring bearer, and if so, what is the person's name?

Will a guest be contributing a song, poem, or reading for the ceremony?

Will you be writing your own vows?

Who will say their vows first in the ceremony?

About monogamy, I'm a fan of it. I have a line in the vows like this: "[Spouse1], do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect [Spouse2], and be faithful to her/him forevermore? (I do)".

We're both good with this.
The times they are a changin'. We'll help you write something that works for us.
We have an alternative lifestyle, we need to fine tune this.

Witnesses

We will bring our own witnesses (2 required)
Please supply one witness for us ($25)
Please supply two witnesses for us ($25 each)

Do you want a prayer in the ceremony?

Yes
No
Tell me more

Bells and whistles

Unity candle (good for inter-generational ceremonies)
Wine or water ceremony (better for outside venues)
Hand fasting
Family blessing (when children are present)

Are you interested in adding any of these small ceremonies to the script?

Are there children involved in the relationship?

How would you like me to introduce you at the end of the ceremony?

Is there a personal story about your relationship that you would like me to add?

Other things we need to discuss or include?

How did you find me?

If a friend referred you, please let me know who so I can thank them.

Website

Clicking send brings you to the PayPal deposit page.

If you have made other arrangements regarding the deposit, please disregard the following payment page.

After I receive your form, if the date is available, I’ll confirm by email that your date is reserved.