Getting to Know You Form for the Lovely Heartfelt Wedding - Trudi Cooper, Minister of the Peace, Wedding Officiant

Getting to Know You Form
for the Lovely Heartfelt Wedding

Please fill out this questionnaire.

(A copy of your form will also be sent to your email address.)

Spouse 1's Legal Name (Primary Contact) *

First

Last

Spouse 1's Phone *

Is this number textable?

Spouse 1: After the wedding, what will your last name be?

Spouse 2's Legal Name *

First

Last

Spouse 2's Phone *

Spouse 2: After the wedding, what will your last name be?

Email for ceremony related correspondence *

Street address

City, State, Zip

Why are you getting married?

Which type of ceremony do you want?

$300 Lovely Heartfelt Wedding Ceremony Package in Trudi's beautiful Ceremony building for wedding couple plus up to 15 guests.
$300 Lovely Heartfelt Wedding Ceremony Package at Trudi’s private riverside area, for wedding couple plus up to to 20 guests.
$300 Lovely Heartfelt Wedding Ceremony Package at your location, for up to 30 guests, indoors or outdoors. There is a travel fee of $1/mile for the one-way distance.
We're not sure
We'd like to discuss other options with you

Date of Wedding *

Please note if dates are tentative.

Time of wedding?

Specific time (AM/PM), or morning, afternoon, evening, not sure yet

Confirmation

Yes, we understand that completing this form is a request to save the date on Trudi’s schedule. The date is not officially reserved until you have returned this form, paid the deposit, and received a confirmation from Trudi.
Yes, we understand that the number of people specified in our wedding party is a not-to-exceed, unless pre-approved by Trudi.
If at Trudi's location, we'll arrive in our wedding clothes, ready to go, unless otherwise discussed.
If at Trudi's location, we'll need time to change into our wedding clothes. We'll plan to arrive an hour early.
Deposit: On the confirmation page following this form, we'll leave a $75 deposit.
Yes, we understand that our $75 deposit is non-refundable. If the date is not available on Trudi's calendar, the deposit will be returned.

Wedding photography option

We're interested in having your husband Eric photograph our wedding. Typically $300-700 for the lovely heartfelt ceremony. His basic package is for 15 edited images ($300) shot on a Sony a7iii. You receive both high and low resolution versions of each image. Often, with all the family groupings, there is a need for more than 15 photos, there may be additional cost.
We understand that the offering is for aesthetically considerate documentation of our Wedding Ceremony, and posed portrait style images of family and friends after the ceremony.
We'd like to discuss the possibilities with you.

Where will the wedding be held?

Venue name and address, or not sure yet

How many people will be at your wedding?

Includes wedding couple, other guests, children over 1 year old. This is a not-to-exceed number. There will be a charge if there are more people.

We are considering your Ceremony building for our wedding.

We need to discuss the details with you.
We're sure we'd like to get married at your Ceremony building
Outdoors at your secluded, private river front.

Does your wedding have a theme?

What are your wedding colors?

So I can wear something that coordinates.

Will either spouse be escorted (given away)?

Yes
No
To be decided

Will there be a ring bearer, and if so, what is the person's name?

Will a guest be contributing a song, poem, or reading for the ceremony?

Do you want a prayer in the ceremony?

Yes
No
Tell me more

Bells and whistles

Unity candle (good for inter-generational ceremonies)
Wine or water ceremony (better for outside venues)
Hand fasting
Family blessing (when children are present)

Are you interested in adding any of these small ceremonies to the script?

Are there children involved in the relationship?

Will you be writing your own vows?

About monogamy, I'm a fan of it. I have a line in the vows like this: "[Spouse1], do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect [Spouse2], and be faithful to her/him forevermore? (I do)".

We're both good with this.
The times they are a changin'. We'll help you write something that works for us.
We have an alternative lifestyle, we need to fine tune this.

How would you like me to introduce you at the end of the ceremony?

Witnesses

We have witnesses (2 are required)
We'll need Trudi to supply witnesses for a fee

Other things we need to discuss or include?

How did you find me?

If a friend referred you, please let me know who so I can thank them.

Website

Clicking send brings you to the PayPal deposit page.

If you have made other arrangements regarding the deposit, please disregard the following payment page.

After I receive your form, if the date is available, I’ll confirm by email that your date is reserved.